Philemon 1:12-16
Over the years, number of scholars and theologians have chosen to consider letter to Philemon with criticism, wondering why letter dealing with such trivial mundane topic would be included in Bible.
“Of what account was the fate of a single insignificant slave, long since dead and gone, to those before whose eyes the battle of the creeds was still raging? This letter taught them nothing about questions of theological interest, nothing about matters of ecclesiastical discipline; and therefore they would have none of it. …It was wholly unworthy of the Apostle. If written by him, they contended, it must have been written when he was not under the influence of the Spirit: its contents were altogether so unedifying.” St Paul’s Epistles to the Colossians and Philemon, by J.B. Lightfoot
I do not share that perspective. Is much of theological significance in these relatively few lines. Approx, 10 years earlier, Paul wrote this: Gal 3.28 “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female; for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” Story told here excellent picture of what happens when we bring Gospel down from theory to bear on everyday real-life situations. Everyone in this account had already experienced power of God at work in their life, would continue to do so.
How do attitudes / relationships change when God is at work? God doesn’t simply save from sin, do a little to get us started, then leave rest up to us. Continues work of making us like Jesus, Requires lots of things to be different as Paul indicates here. Perhaps didn’t provide all details we want, definitely gave enough to keep us busy.
A. Paul’s dilemma v.12-14
what he does
he sends – makes arrangements incl. companion Tychicus to facilitate Onesimus’s return to Colosse and his master Philemon
he explains – wrote cover letter to help Philemon understand what happened, reason for Paul’s involvement and delayed return
he grieves – strong language – my very heart, part of myself – really painful loss for Paul, esp. so until hearing of Onesimus’ progress, future usefulness in Christian service
what he wants to do
keep Onesimus – his first choice, has quickly become useful helper – perhaps skilled at anticipating and meeting unspoken needs
grow their friendship – gone from nearly total stranger to family in record time, maybe relationship that just clicked plus Holy Spirit actively present in both
mentor for ministry – true skill set closet well-stocked but door locked and light off – Paul recognized conversion changed that
why it is right to do
considerate to Philemon – if Philemon a good steward of God-given resources, loss of Onesimus would be significant
preserve their friendship – final outcome not one of primary Gospel significance, not good enough reason to compromise friendship between Christian brothers
allow Philemon the initiative – provides opening for Philemon to give Paul blessing guaranteed to be appreciated, receive blessing in return plus example for the church
B. Philemon’s benefit v.15
God using Onesimus’s leaving for good
the difficulties – Rome’s population 500K+; 1200 miles; Paul’s confinement; chance encounter w/apostle highly unlikely
the result – seriously, would God have left scenario like this to mercy of random occurrences? even less likely, esp. given probable outcome of time spent w/Paul
useful today – helped Paul, probably Tychicus on journey, Philemon after he got “home”; greater usefulness in service to God
Philemon to receive a good gift
Onesimus immeasurably improved – might have been middle of the scale servant before, same work done same way with Christian spirit added is hugely different/better
substantial value in this life – improvement in Onesimus’s usefulness observed by others and add to Philemon’s reputation
not only now but also for forever – Paul expected relationship w/Onesimus to be mended and unlike before, last into next life
Philemon’s example to the church
opportunities for counsel – letter gives some of reasoning behind Philemon’s decision but not all – probably asked how he reached decision, have opportunity to explain
enlarged circle of influence – given time and place, Roman laws and practices, hard to imagine more difficult situation – navigating this well would raise confidence in Philemon’s wisdom
if Philemon agrees, show Heb 10:24 in action – And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works
C. Onesimus’s usefulness v.16
was God’s doing
God selected him – Eph. 1:4 “He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before Him in love,” – work logic backwards…
God directed him – to our view, he could have gone anywhere in world he wanted… instead went where easy to disappear
God connected him – once there, in way unknown to us, God connected him to only one in entire city to write for the church
altered every relationship
with Paul – someone relatively unknown becomes like son he doesn’t want to part with, better… a son in the faith…forever
with Philemon – regardless of Roman legal standing, in sight of God and his people were now beloved Christian brothers
with the church – whether legal status as Philemon’s property retained or not, no longer a consideration… equal opportunity for ministry to all incl. Philemon
useful to everyone
as an employee… in the home and workplace – better equipped to be more efficient and effective in all he does
as a fellow-servant… side-by-side w/Philemon – able to contribute to ministry work more fully as co-laborer with leaders
as a child of God… to his Heavenly Father – probably greatest consideration for Paul, recognizing how useful Onesimus could be in advancing Christ’s kingdom through Gospel work
In every part of Onesimus’s adventure here is easy to see God at work. Onesimus in many ways not out of ordinary… God just as much at work in our lives, not as apparent to us many times. Were many ways God worked on outside – arranging Onesimus’s travel plans, contacts with people, much more we don’t know about. God does same for us, often to bring about similar results.
Is also important work God was doing inside Onesimus, by power of Holy Spirit to change him from inside out – giving new heart responsive to him, new desires to want what God wants, new sight to see and understand things before hidden from him. God does all those things in us and our lives too.
God had expectations for Onesimus, what he expected Onesimus to do with all these new things. He expected Onesimus’s outside to match his inside, show in visible ways he was becoming like Jesus, more like Jesus. Some of the changes pretty dramatic and obvious, others would take time and effort to grow and produce fruit. We can count on Heavenly Father to be present with us, in us by his Holy Spirit every hour of every day working to help us become like his Son the Lord Jesus. He will enable and equip us to live for Jesus, do what pleases him, introduce friends and neighbors to him.