3 John 1
Three men and the truth – all professed faith in God but didn’t all live same way. Had knowledge of truth, didn’t put into practice alike. One, in fact, living exactly opposite of instructions in 1 John: 1-to-1 connection between love for God, love for brethren. Sad to say, this one, Diotrephes, in charge of church in midst of serious trouble.
Lord Jesus told disciples “I will build my church (Matt. 16:18), sent them out, commissioned them to do that at his Ascension. Through his apostles, left his church clear instructions on how to do church. Some of instruction came about because of needs, other instruction because of problems in particular local churches. John’s first two letters prompted because of needs – reinforce truth, encourage believers in truth. This letter, well, there was Gaius – a good guy; Demetrius – another good guy. Both working hard at pleasing God, advancing Christ’s kingdom.
And then there was Diotrephes. His reaction to truth not same as Gaius and Demetrius. Gaius was committed to the truth in all areas of his life. Demetrius was example of the truth in action, the one who likely carried letter to Gaius. Diotrephes rejected truth that came to him with apostolic authority.
A. committed to the truth v.1-8 Gaius
beloved friend (1)
4x – beloved – αγαπητε – 1, 2, 5, 11
deep affection – equivalent of what Paul called “son in the faith” – one who was converted under John’s ministry, who matured under his teaching
tenderness accentuated because of:
(1) John’s pastoral heart
(2) danger to Gaius and others because of church situation
common ground / basis of relationship
Gospel truth – just as in previous epistle, truth is vital prominent component: 6x – αληθεια – 1, 3, 4, 8, 12
shared heritage in the truth, understanding of the truth, commitment to the truth – encourage bonds
would you really want someone to pray this way for you: may physical health match spiritual health (2)
lots of people neglect aspects of physical health, not to devote attention to health of soul
for many would require complete shift in way of thinking, setting priorities about both self and others
extremely high commendation of Gaius by John – “your soul prospers”, his soul was in good health
so how did John know about health of Gaius’ soul, how could he be so confident? see v.3
source of pastoral joy (3-4)
noticed / spoken of by others (3a)
parent’s response to praise of children: “homeschoolers?” “how’d you know?” “good manners”
same true for pastor: spiritual children show evidence of training
possession of truth obvious in practice of truth (3b)
reinforcing principle given in 1 John, James, 2 Cor.
1 John 3:18 “let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth”
James 2:14, 18 “What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works?” …”Show me your faith without your works, and I will show you my faith by my works”
2 Cor. 5:17 ” if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new”
greatest joy – not limited to this life, extends to heaven (4)
John can imagine no greater joy – greatest concern for spiritual well-being, soul-health of his “children”
far better to have children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews who are holy than simply happy
knows that what has eternal significance brings greatest joy
their commitment to truth, living life consistent with truth is evidence of inward spiritual change
practicing hospitality
demonstrating to strangers faithfulness to the truth and love (5-6a)
Gaius identified people as brothers, did what the Bible said and showed hospitality
went outside his comfort zone, maybe, to be hospitable to strangers
made such an impression they “told on him”
helping the missionaries – food, lodging, encouragement, etc. (6b-7)
put substance behind the “God-speed” – sending on their way in worthy manner
especially helpful since missionaries depended on God’s people to support God’s work
fellow-laboring in the truth (8)
God uses means to achieve his ends, has appointed the means as well as the ends
to be part of support system made Gaius a co-worker – same is true of our missionaries
B. rejecter of the truth v.9-10 Diotrephes
loves to be first
self-promoting, putting himself rather than others in place of importance
Jesus had something to say about that: Mark 9:35And He sat down, called the twelve, and said to them, “If anyone desires to be first, he shall be last of all and servant of all.”
rejects someone else’s truth – who present a threat
prevented John’s previous letter from being read in church; sensed threat to his position
maliciously accusing
attempting to discredit John and his authority; launching accusations that couldn’t be substantiated
perhaps even trying to baffle those under his control with excessive talk: “run on in talk, without connection or sense”
refuses hospitality – avoided outsiders
didn’t recognize missionaries as brothers; probably holding up his own church as only true church, only true Christians
prevents other hospitality – controlling
opposite of what he should have been doing as church leader
“It is bad to do no good ourselves; but it is worse to hinder those who would.” Henry
and beginning to overstep bounds of authority
exercises discipline
2nd degree separation – don’t have problem with you, it’s with ones you hang out with – clear abuse of authority
acting alone to exercise discipline – not following Matt. 18 principles, concurring with rest of church, etc.
acting in wrong spirit – envy, self-preservation; personal ends in view, not the good of others
C. example of the truth v.11-12 Demetrius
not new information, just a gentle reminder – keep doing what you’re doing, what’s right
imitate the right thing (11)
don’t have to teach how to imitate – happens naturally, easily
think small children – things they learn/copy so easily: what you do / don’t want them to
think big “children” – not much changes – the “wave” at ball game, clapping @ concert
imitate Demetrius, not Diotrephes
imitation is a choice, not simply a given – comes easily but can be directed
John urges Gaius: make right choice, who / what you imitate
you claim to be child of God, be sure choices and lifestyle confirm that testimony
well spoken of by (12)
everyone
if you know him, you know what he stands for
deeds match words: one who lives life consistent with verbal witness commended even by enemies
most importantly, Demetrius lives the way you’d expect one changed by Gospel to act
Diotrephes promoted himself, Demetrius was promoted by his whole local church
the truth itself – shown by his life
was in private what he was in public
claimed to believe truth, love truth, follow truth – lifestyle confirmed claims
no one around Demetrius had any excuse for not knowing Jesus
the elder himself
John adds own personal commendation of Demetrius
puts own reputation on line to further ministry of fellow-servant
Two basic reactions to truth described by John – one worthy of imitation, one definitely not. Gaius, Demetrius, John himself: absolute commitment to the truth embodied in Lord Jesus, enscripturated in Bible. Loved it, determined to live it, laboring to bring others to it. It’s truth of God’s Word, the Bible, that sets free from bondage. Not what’s found in Qu’ran; Book of Mormon